Brian John Francis

1950 - 2009
LocationBognor Regis
Age59 years
Cause of DeathLeukaemia
Date of Birth12/02/1950
Date of Death13/09/2009
Visitors305 since 18/09/2009
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Our Dad, Brian, was born on 12th February 1950. He was one of 6
children with 4 sisters and a brother.

He met our mum, Jane Jackson, at the 39 club in Bognor Regis, they soon realised they were made for
each other and got engaged. They married on 7th February 1970.

They had 4 daughters, Sarah, their eldest daughter, was born in July 1970, followed by Tracy just
over 2 years later in October 1972, then came Claire in October 1974 and lastly Paula in March
1977.

Dad had several jobs before he became a taxi driver in Bognor
Regis. He was very well known and loved in Bognor. He also played
the french game of Petanque for a local pub and also was part of
the England team at one point.

He was a joker and loved playing tricks on people. He also liked a
flutter on horses and football in particular.

In April 1998 Dad suffered a major stroke and was in hospital for 8 months. Unfortunately the
stroke left Dad unable to walk and talk, he also had very little use of his right side. This didn't
stop Dad though, with the love and tremendous support of Mum, Dad lived life to the full going on
holidays to his favourite destination, Gran Canaria. Dad used to go out into Bognor Regis in his
wheelchair, he was well known in the town by the shop workers, particularly in his favourite coffee
shop, which made it easy to get a cuppa when he needed one. With a shout of “oh boyer”, Dad's
word after his stroke, you always knew when Dad was around.

Dad's 15 grandchildren doted on their grandad and they all meant the world to him. They loved it
when he used to give them lollies from his bedside cabinet.

Christmas was Dad's favourite time of year, he couldnt wait until 1st December to put up the
Christmas Lights on the windows. He loved a real Christmas tree, the bigger the better, with loads
of decorations his and mum's living room was like a grotto. Dad also saved up to go Christmas
Shopping with Tracy to buy mums presents and top of the list would always be a nice comfy pair of
slippers.

Sadly though, our Dad grew ill in summer 2009, after a couple of weeks of being lethargic and tired
and courses of antibiotics, my dad was taken into St. Richards Hospital. After some tests it was
clear that Dad was quite ill. He was diagnosed with acute myeloid leukaemia in September 2009.
This was quite advanced and the doctors made Dad comfortable and after seeing his wife and 4
daughters all together Dad fell asleep peacefully on 13th September and is no longer suffering.

Our Dad touched the hearts of everyone he met. He had an infectious personality and will be sadly
missed by all that knew him.

We Love You Dad and will never forget you

Love Always

Your Daughters

xxxxxx




Dad
Dad...so many images come to mind
whenever I speak your name;
It seems without you in my life
things have never been the same.

What happened to those lazy days
when I was just a child;
When my life was consumed in you
in your love, and in your smile.

What happened to all those times
when I always looked to you;
No matter what happened in my life
you could make my gray skies blue.

Dad, some days I hear your voice
and turn to see your face;
Yet in my turning...it seems
the sound has been erased.

Dad, who will I turn to for answers
when life does not make sense;
Who will be there to hold me close
when the pieces just don't fit.

Oh, Dad, if I could turn back time
and once more hear your voice;
I'd tell you that out of all the dads
you would still be my choice.

Please always know I love you
and no one can take your place;
Years may come and go
but your memory will never be erased.

Today, God, as You are listening
in your home above;
Would you go and find my dad
and give him all my love.


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too much heartache too much pain,when i lost jake its like i lost you over again.Love forever and ever,sleep in peace.Take care of each other till i get there,then ill show you whos in charge.

Gloria Berardo (Sister) October 14, 2009

miss you bro rest in peace all my love forever gloria

Gloria Berardo (Sister) October 3, 2009

Well brian its been a week now and you are still in my thoughts, and you will always be there. God bless x

Philip Towes (Brother-in-Law) October 2, 2009

loving you always forgetting you never rest in perfect peace dear brother

Gloria Berardo (Sister) September 28, 2009

Dad, your funeral on Thursday was perfect. Mum did you proud, she even picked your favourite flowers from Gran Canaria, they were absolutely beautiful.
Emily read her poem and bought a tear to everyones eye, she was so brave and so full of emotion, bless her she melted my heart. Tracy wrote a lovely reading for you and she captured the Dad i remember, the fun loving, cheeky, kind hearted Dad I will never ever forget. The church service ended with everyone singing along to your old karaoke song, The Wonder Of You, that was perfect.
Sarah, Tracy, Claire and I seem to have all put our differences aside and are getting on well, which I know is something you have always wanted. We will always support Mum and make sure she's ok.
You live on in all of us and we will never forget you, and i promise that my children will know all about the greatest man, their Grandad.
I will come and visit your resting place when I can and i hope you will see me.
Our lives will never be the same without you
Love You Always Dad
Goodnight Sleeptight
Paula xxxxx

Paula Richardson (Daughter) September 26, 2009

i love you bruv rest in peace and god bless you your sis gloria

Gloria Berardo (Sister) September 25, 2009

He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last for ever: I was wrong.

The stars are not wanted now: put out every one;
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun;
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood.
For nothing now can ever come to any good.

Paula Richardson (Daughter) September 21, 2009

pot of gold

we are all like rainbows, at the end there is something special, like a pot of gold

Sarah Welsby (Daughter) September 20, 2009

thinking of you xx

so sorry to hear your loss paula im am thinking of you and your family your all in my thoughts love tracy and alan xxxxxx

Tracy September 19, 2009

This poem is inspired by our Grandad xx

He was like a beam of sunlight
Lighting up the greyest of clouds

His hugs warmed us up
On the coldest of nights

His smile gave us the power
To carry on the saddest of days

He was like a grapevine wrapping round all the things he loved
All the things he treasured, looking out for them all

He was like a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow
So hard to find but worth the search

His presence was an honour sent from above
Something unique and so so beautiful

He is our granddad , we love him very much
And we will never forget him, and will miss him
On those greyest of days

Those coldest of nights and the

Those saddest of days.

We will always love him, who he was ,what he said,
What he liked and we will remember the love we shared for him and he had for us, always and forever he will be in our hearts.

By Emily x I LOVE YOU GRANDAD !!!

Emily Welsby (Granddaughter) September 19, 2009
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